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Sample Suicide Inquiry

Have you ever thought about killing yourself?

  • if “No”: Have you ever tried to kill yourself?
    • if “No”: If you ever did try, how would you do it?
      • Why wouldn’t you kill yourself, what would stop you?
  • if “Yes” or no response or evasive response:
    • When was the last time you thought about killing yourself?
      • Tell me about that.
        • What did you think about doing?
        • How would you do that?
        • Do you have [access to means]?
        • What would stop you, why wouldn’t you kill yourself?
        • assess current circumstances, sources of support, knowledge and access to emergency help
      • Have you ever tried to kill yourself?
        • How many times?
        • What did you do the last time? When was that? What happened? What were you thinking, what did you want to happen?
        • What did you do the first time? How old were you? What happened?
        • assess other attempts
      • Has anyone in your family or someone you knew really well ever killed themselves?
      • What would keep you from trying again? What could you do if you began thinking about suicide?

Suicide “contracts”

  • 1st choice: a clear, unequivocal statement, declarative :
    • I promise you I will not kill myself.
      • This can be followed up with emergency plans to follow if anything happens which appears to threaten the promise.
  • 2nd choice: a conditional statement:
    • I promise you I will not kill myself without first talking to you about it.
    • I promise I will not kill myself during the next week.
    • I promise I will not kill myself between now and our next session.
  • If client cannot make a conditional statement, with convication and eye contact, emergency care plans may be necessary
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